jodyb_72401
02-20-2001, 01:12 AM
Want to tank everyone for there advice. Everone had all good ideals, and advice. After i think about what blink said about the list and all i got thinking about it and if i did meet someone like my ex today i would run from them. I told my ex today that i don't think it would do any good for us to go to counseling and try to back things better, I just can't take her staying at guys housees we are friends right now and don't want to mess that up. I well i don't know if i did the right thing or not only time well tell. But i sure feel better now. It is hard working on a relationship when just one person seems to be working on it. Told her there where no hard feelings about anything and i wish we could work it out becouse i do love her. But there are somethings that i don't think u need to do if u are working on a relationship and staying at someone of the opposite sex is one of them. She said she didn't want to give up her friends but i don't want her to give up any thing but sharing everything when the person is the best way to go. U should have to ask someone to give anythign up. If something i was doing was getting to her i wouldn't do it anymore. Marrrage is about love, trust and all that stuff but i think all we had was love. She is the most important thing in life to me (other then my kids) but i just couldn't take it. Well talk to all of u later thanks again for all the advice. And i feel so much after telling her how i truely felt. One more thing it is so hard for me to ficure out the subject to call this