SEX conversation....

[Nise]

Ok... I messed up!!! I wanted to start a new thread here but instead I started it under the "If you give a mom a muffin" one posted by Psalmreader..
check it out there and give me some info... Please..too much to retype here!|:o

[kezzer]

Originally posted by Nise
Here's a whopper for ya!
Let's talk about sex ba-by....
Are you guys getting any?
Not much of that goin on in my house!
I don't want any details but I was wondering...
how often is normal and why is it sooooo hard to find time with the hubby...I can't even rem the last time I've just snuggled
T....you wanted to talk......I'm talkin!!!! Does anyone know T? I didn't know if you ever used your REAL name
hehe!
No seriously.... if anyone can give me ideas for at least once a week I'd be grateful!!!
Sometimes it's like...2-3 weeks between mind you it's not by choice...it because we're so tired, baby's still awake or the need to goto bed because he has to get up sooo early (4:00am)!!!


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[kezzer]

LOL I think when you have a baby 2-3 weeks is the norm! It's not much different in my house! It usually gets better when they get older, it just takes a lot of patience!

[Nise]

Kezzer...Good to know I'n not the only one that's deprived.
I do miss being spontanious:) that just doesn't happen any more!

[PsalmReader]

Well since you asked...
When you are in a different state than your husband most of the time, sex is a hard thing to come by. S is usually gone for 3 weeks at a time. Then when he does get a weekend off, we have my ss too and stay at S's mom's house. These conditions also make it difficult. When the girls and I get to go on the road w/ him, we are usually in a hotel room. That means the girls are in the bed right next to us. {blues}

But thankfully, every once in a while we manage to sneak off together. It had to happen sometime or I wouldn't be raising two kiddos now!

I don't usually use my real name, just initial. Thanks for changing it! :)

[PsalmReader]

Originally posted by Nise
I do miss being spontanious:) that just doesn't happen any more!
I think that you guys should plan a "date night". Get someone to watch your boy and go BACK HOME!

Also, I think you have the book "The Power of a Praying Wife". Stormie has a very good chapter on this subject with good suggestions to keep this area of your marriage healthy.