what if he doesn't go out at all?

[Karenluvs6]

geesh, I don't rememeber the last time he went anywhere.
That's hubby I mean....he is in every night of the week but Wednesday...he goes bowling then.
He gets reall antsy, but he don't go out!
I can't even have a girl's night in.
geez, how do ya deal with that?!

[blinc]

I don't have that problem. If he wants a night out - he goes fishing with a friend or two. The cold nights get to me, so I don't go too often.

Hmmm... I don't know! Guess maybe you'll have to resign yourself to having ladies night at a friends house? We've grown to be a couple of peas in a pod and actually enjoy spending time together. Think it's cause we've been together so long... it wasn't always this comfy being around each other so much. Guess we've just grown on each other... kinda like fungus! *grin*

[In_His_Shadow]

I wish I could offer you some advice. Maybe someone else on this board will know what to do. My husband and I have never had guy and girl things. We do everything together. We always have. It has worked for us but, I have heard many people say that it would drive them crazy if they didn't have time apart now and then. We are so different than the norm in this we are actually looking forward to our girls being gone. Its that tug at your heart and yippee at the same time.

I know someone here will be able to help.

CJ

[Karenluvs6]

yeah us too....that's the thing, we've done everything together! Everything!!!
ya know what though, it never bothered me until he went out on medical leave...now he's home all the time. He gets bored so easily when he isn't working and constantly bugs me during those times.
He says he is bored like 20,000 times a day, does nothing but eat, pace the floor and then eat some more!
It is driving me crazy ladies...crazy I tell ya!!

I never thought I'd see the day, when I would be pushing him out the door.

[Debby]

I hate to say it, but I really miss going out sometimes...My hubby only wants to stay in...I am lucky if I can get him to go see a movie, or go out for supper....and that is only if I am buying. I have a closet full of nice clothes that just hang there, as I never seem to have any opportunity to wear them. :(