Question about it being your place

[KalenElendil]

Okay my brother is cheating on his girlfriend and i want to know your opinion on if it's my place to say something about it.

[jamesglewisf]

Yikes! It is definitely your place to say something to him.

I would tell him to fess up or stay away. In other words, he either tells his girlfriend or he keeps clear of you.

If she is someone you see regularly, I would tell him to either fess up or you'll tell her for him. There is no reason he should make you a part of his lies and deception.

[KalenElendil]

Yeah i have considered telling her a couple of times and i warned him to back off...i havn't spoke to him in two weeks and we live in the same room. I told him i would speak to him freely when he fessed up. so basically he is not going to and i want to tell her but i have trouble seeing how it was my place. But thanks for the advice.